So guys have a desire to be flattered by others. This creates a desire to be looked up to. This comes into play at work, out in the world, and at home. Men depend on their wives for support in the decisions they make and in how they relate to others. If a woman does not do this it creates a desire in the man to obtain this from somewhere else. There is a cure for this but it requires us to refocus.
God has a desire to fawn over us. He loves us, and when we desire this from others we are taking away this relationship with him. We need to change our desire from someone else to Jesus. We need to put our focus on Jesus. He is the one and only true love for us. We can not require others to do it, not our wives, not our friends, not somebody down the street or neighbor, but Jesus is the one we need to be focused on. We need to take our focus off of ourselves and put our focus on Jesus.
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